Pre-Valentines thoughts

Two days ago I wrote in my notebook: “Life has began and I am watching it passing by.”

Well, that made me think that,  we all in some point in our life watched it go by. You cannot be perfect and live to a full extent every day. And actually what that means? Do I have to go out of my house and go hiking or something like that? Or am I suppose to appreciate ever single moment?

I realised today the Friday of 13th that I do live my life to a full extent, In my own unique way.

This is how I started my day: with black coffee and healthy cereal with oat milk and watching a podcast about psychology.

Healthy Breakfast

It talked about a lot of things, but the thing that draw my attention was that people this days are becoming meaner and that it’s difficult to find a relationship that not only you love each other, but value each other.

I totally agree. I also think we need to work ourselves first before we go find love and bring another person in our lives. I self-reflect so much that I know when somethings wrong with me and took me years to achieve that.

Moving  on to the love thing; since tomorrow is valentines.

A lot of people don’t have a valentine, and a lot don’t believe in that celebration. I am one of them, I do not believe in that celebration. Why do we have to celebrate love only on 14th of February we need to celebrate it every single moment of our lives.

It’s love you don’t need a person to make you feel loved. It comes from you first and then the rest of them. So that’s why I bought me a cake because I love me and if I had to celebrate that day I would with me. Let’s celebrate then for ourselves not for the media. Let’s buy an overpriced cake for ourselves and because we want it ( it can be anything you buy for yourself) not because the media says buy a gift for your loved one. Celebrate love, not because of valentines because you love that person, friend, lover, family or even yourself make it official on any day you choose. I choose every day to love and cherish me and the people around me.

What do you choose?



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