I wrote this one year ago; I was so afraid to publish it. I am taking the risk and publishing it. So enjoy and please I let people know that not everyone fits in the same basket this is an observation from my experience.
Where love stand, in the age of one night stands and hookups?
People asked why is so difficult to find love?
I believe that in the age we are living on for young people is more important to have sex and have more sexual partners rather that feel something extraordinary. I myself believed that being emotionally unavailable is the best thing I could do.
1. I will not get hurt
2. I will do as I please
3. I will focus on me and my career
I will tell you tho every time I said that, I was heartbroken and miserable. Being emotionally unavailable is harder than you think.
In that time, I gained experience and learnt people are not as nice as they say and they have their motives to take advantage of you and your beliefs.
I am now 23 years old in a respectful relationship that I was seeking deep down.
So now, I am simply an observer of other people in my age and sadly I see a lot of things that disappoints me.
1. They go out to hook up and not to have fun.
2. They are looking men or women as sex objects with no respect.
3. Having sex unprotected and that cause not only pregnancy’s but also sexual diseases.
There are of course exceptions and I do not put everyone in the same basket.
The media support’s all of that, being ridiculous and seek unimportant things. So this is where I come and say, love is dying because of that. Being emotionally unavailable, makes us block every good action in our lives or makes us wonder is it actually true? Or that person is being nice because he/she wants something?
We wonder, but life goes on and we focus on things such as the future rather than the present. Love is unexpected you can’t plan it or fake till you make it.