Insanity letters to myself Letter 1-Happy monsterating

Dear me,

The insanity of wanting something so much and then not getting it is heartbreaking.

Let me back up first so everybody get a context of what I am talking about. Motherhood, at some point a lot of women wants to be mothers, but not all are lucky enough to get pregnant straight away or not at all some times. Some have it experienced it and be heart broken each month when you see that all the symptoms you were having and thinking you were pregnant is just a bad case of the worst PMS of history again.

I am one of those women. I am not disappointed that I entered my shark week , but the anxiety of am or am I not before is ever wrecking. I talked about it too much with strangers that know me and I feel the pity in their eyes and the phrase “it will happen don’t worry”, it makes it all of a more heartbreaking.

So instead of going to a professional as I would normally do . I decided to write letters to myself of my feelings and weird psychological things I put myself to. Probably I am the most mondane person there is, but writing about it always helped me me more than talking it about it.

So here I am telling you sometimes monsterating is disappointing because you are not pregnant, but simply preparing for a new cycle.

I hope by writing those letters I would give a little lightness to the situation of trying to conceive and people will laugh, cry and be excited with me and maybe share your stories with me so we be in this together.

Dear me

Youtube is doing a thing that you say something about your younger self with the hashtag #dearme.

I have to say that is a very nice thing to do because a lot of us forget our younger selves.

When I asked myself what message would you send to yourself?

My instant reaction would be, don’t listen to assholes. Because those people are not worth your time. There are not good people, bringing someone down is not amazing, is mean. So be nice people out there someone one day will not be able to stand up for themselves. And this is where I come to my second message that is more important.

DON’T BE AFRAID.

You got your world to your feet, seize the bloody day and do something amazing or not, but above all, be yourself and do things for you and if an asshole comes along show them how to be unique because you deserve to be happy. I deserve to be happy, everybody deserves to be happy.

So if you haven’t seen the video in youtube you probably going to find it sooner or later.